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question 1: Matt Dillon's racism was more harsh at first that the woman married to the senator (Sandra Bullock) Also, the cop learned very early on about being racist and how he affects others can turn back to him. Sandra bullock's character learned this a little later when she fell down the stairs and no one would help. I don't really know where sandra's racism came from but I could see where the cop's came from, with his fathers conditions.

questions 2: the mexican was accused of getting his homeboys and breaking into the lady's house and the man's store. This made him feel bad because he even moved out of bad neighborhoods to get away from people like that but no one could see that. Also, the black man was accused of causing problems when he got pulled over, when really he was being cooperative. This made him frustrated because he really was being complient, but there was nothing he could do to make the police see that.

question 3: There are still a lot of racists in America. I wish there was something we could do about it, but there will always be people who think they are better than everyone else and that some people are just low. This will never end because those who are racist now will most likely influence their kids and it will keep going on like a chain event.

question 4: stereotypes somewhat come from reaality, however the facts are stretched past the truth. For example, most arabians or indians who come to America become taxi drivers or small store clerks. It doesn't mean that all are; however, it is obvious that it is true that there are a lot of arabs who drive taxis or indians who are store clerks. Even in the movie the arab was the owner of a small business and he worked as the clerk.

question 5: I don't think it is natural in our genes to be racist. I think that racism is all mental and it is influenced and taught by parents and other people while kids grow up. You will usually take the same views your parents hold.

question 6: Like I previously said, I think that race is taught by parents. The force their own views on their kids, which in turn, makes them racist. There is some racism on T.V. but not so much the hateful racism. Its more of the comedy racism. Most of what you learned about your views on racism came from your parents.

question 7: I hope that racism ends but unfortunately I don't think it will any time soon. People are just too stuck on the fact that not all people are equal and some think they are superior. I think that overall racism will subside but it will never truly be eliminated... at least not for a long long time. (which is sad) As long as people are open minded and teach others, including their kids, not to be racist and be accepting, it will get better.

More Social Class

Wealth gives many privelages in life. First of all, if you have wealth, you have less problems. You can pay bills on time, buy groceries, pay off your house, and support a family. It is a lot harder to do all of that without wealth. Next, it is easier to get out of trouble or stay out of trouble. You have money so you do not need to take it. Last, it takes off stress when you have money. If you are constntly working to earn just enough money to live, then you will be constantly stressed. You will always be worried if you don't get paid because then it is harder to live. It is just like the people who started out with more money in the monopoly game. They did not have to worry about how they were spending money, or even if they would have enough money to keep playing. They also controlled most of the spaces on the board and they almost never went to jail. I think it sucks that it is easier for some people just because they have money, but at the same time I do not think we should try to distribute the wealth more. There is always the opportunity for people to be equal, it just doesn't always turn out like that.

Class and People Like Us

My interpretation from the quote is that we all know who we are inside, but under certain circumstances we may act different. It also says that when we exclude ourselves from one situation, we enter an entirely different one. I think Shaw is trying to point out that people only belong to one class and it should stay like that. Certain behaviors are only acceptable in some classes. For example, if you are of a higher class, you make take a limo somewhere or you might have someone mow your lawn for you. If you were lower class you would not do this because then you are spending money that doesn't need to be spent. Its just a difference of perspective and different classes are entitled to their own different opinions and views.

Classs and Deviance

Social class and economic class seem like two different things, but they are still affected by eachother. Social class seems to be your atidude towards the people you associate yourself with, and what your interests are. Economic class is where financially you stand in a community. There will always be a lower and a higher class of economic wealth; however, even if you are lower class and have no money, you may still have high class interests. Class plays a role in my life by controlling how I grew up. I grew up traveling all the time and my mom always giving me nice things, which has resulted in me being somewhat spoiled. There are some people who are less fortunate and sadly become socially deviant. People may have grown up learning the wrong things, which results in them being a deviance to society. Not everyone who is not of higher class is deviant; however, there is some evidence to show that those from a lower class may end up being more deviant.

Final 2nd 6 Weeks Blog

I did not pay for anything I am wearing today except for socks and boxers. I am wearing a shirt and hat that I got for free from sponsors,a jacket that I got as a birthday present, a pair of shorts that I found at my house, and an old pair of shoes from a friend. I think it was just nurture how I put all of this on. I have been around the snowboarding culture for the last 6 years of my adolescents and I think the style of clothing that most snowboarders wear has just grown on me. I now dress like what a "typical" snowboarder dresses like. I think this plays into my future job. I know that I am going to do something with snowboarding. It is my favorite sport and it is hopefully going to be my job too. I think it is nature how I like the cold. I have never really been a fan of warm weather. I think that nature and nurture balance out because nature takes over where nurture has failed.
As kids grow into their adolescence they also seem to have this need for social status power. They all need to fit in somewhere, and this is why we see different clicks start to form in high school. Different clicks have different ranks of power for each kid, and every kid is trying to make it to the top. To many adolescents, their ranking in their social group is the only form of power that they have. This is why it is so important to so many kids.
Today, kids have different ways of socializing. It is almost all through technology. Through the use of texting, facebook, and myspace, kids have nearly eliminated face to face conversations. This raises many concerns among adults, such as internet safety and exercise. Kids need to go outside and interact wit each other, not sit inside and socialize through a computer screen. Kids back in the day were forced to have face to face interactions because there was no such thing as the internet or cell phones. I think these concerns are pretty valid. I find myself on the internet too much. Even this blog I'm doing right now is obviously over the internet. I think adults are right to not want their kids on the computer so much.
Girls and boys socialize completely differently. Girls gossip and hang out with other girls, while guys play sports and don't talk about their feelings...at least thats what the stereotypes say. Stereotypes play into the roles of socialization a lot these days. Its what makes girls dress and act certain ways and it does the same for guys. I think that these gender roles have definitely played into my life. I act and dress the way that most of my guy friends do. I also see it affect most of my friends and other people I associate with.

Infantilization

I see infantilization all the time. Whether I see it on TV, in school, or at home, I feel as if it is all around me. Examples of how I see it on TV is in commercials. They always seem to appeal to the inner child in everyone. Mostly I see it in credit card commercials. They tell their customers to reward themselves, even though they only get rewarded by spending their money. They encourage people to spend money just so they gets points towards a reward, and people actually buy in to this.
Another place I see this is in our school. I actually encountered an essay prompt today that relates to infantilization. The question was, "Should students be graded on their ability to know facts or should they be graded upon effort?" In other words, should we reward students with good grades if they give it their best try? Also I think that students are given too much responsibility, yet we still receive punishment as if we were younger. We are expected to go and live on our own in a year when we transition into college, yet we still get i trouble with the deans over miniscule things.
Finally where I see infantilization probably the most is at home. My mom thinks that she is rewarding me when she lets me drive, even to work. Going to work is an adult responsibility, therefore driving to work and getting there on time should be expected. Teens and Adults are constantly being infantilized whether you realize it or not. It is throughout our everyday lives and we need to start realizing it, or else we will be taken over by these thoughts that we can be controlled as if we are infants.

Water In My Life

Something in my culture that is similar to the "water" is how everyone seems to be stuck on this concept of instant gratification. Everything today is given to people so quick that when we actually have to wait for something we get upset. For instance, if someone goes to a McDonalds and orders nuggets and they say it will take 5 minutes to get them, the person who ordered them will get upset that he or she has to wait for the food. Another example is all of the speeders in this country. I myself know from personal experience that people speed because they feel like it gets them there faster, and to them faster is always better. And finally my last example of this instant gratification is the internet. If we want to talk to someone or order something, we don't even have to get up off the couch. With the click of a button we can order a new TV, talk to friends, or even order groceries just by going on the internet. This has definitely affected my behavior because I am also a person that enjoys this instant gratification and I am not used to not getting things rights away.

To navigate around this I think we just have to slow down and say that its ok to be patient. Like the saying goes, "patience is a virtue." I think that it is difficult for some people to adjust to having to wait for things, especially if you are like me and you grew up in this era of total instant gratification. If I were to go to Africa and I had to hunt for my food and be patient, I think it would be hard for me and most others. It would bring a whole new respect to me about how everything around me is so readily available. I think to adjust to this you would need to be in an environment in which you could not have everything so quickly first. I don't think somebody who lives in the poorer regions of the inner city take advantage of how they can get things as easily as most others who live in the suburbs and have some money. The only way that I navigate around this is by telling myself that its ok to have to wait for something. Sometimes waiting even makes stuff better and there is more satisfaction when you actually get it.

When I was younger I think that I valued my freedom from my parents. They would let me stay out in the neighborhood late and go play with friends whenever I wanted. This type of freedom seemed great at the time, and it was, but now I see my freedom completely different. I have adjusted my values and I am now thankful that I am able to drive where I want and stay out late. I have more freedom now than I did as a kid and it still feels great. I think that most people today would say that they appreciate their freedom in different ways and for different reasons, but there is no doubt that everyone in America should appreciate it in some way. Another value that I hold close to me is equality. Again, when I was younger I never saw anybody as different. In fact, one of my good friends had a mental hadicap when I was young and I saw him no different than any of my other friends. Now that I am older I hold this value even higher. It is important to make everybody feel equal because we were all born equal. Nobody should be discriminated against based on gender, age, race, sexual orientation or anything else. Because I have experiences more in this world I have seen firsthand how unequality can hurt people and it is not right. I have truly found happiness in all of the values I hold and throughout all of my life experiences.